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		<title>遛狗狗</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 00:00:14 +0800</pubDate>
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			<title>遇到个怪人</title>
			<link>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/100291453.html</link>
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			<dc:creator>遛狗狗</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 00:00:14 +0800</pubDate>
			<category>最近生活</category>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>最近在qq上遇到个怪人，我怀疑是片子，大家注意了。（泡泡和1032647077都是代名）</p>
<p>以后遇到这种人，还是用手机qq聊的直接删除放入黑名单，不要向我一样，浪费了宝贵的时间，Oh, my GOD!</p>
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<p>&nbsp;<br />1032647077 12:59:32<br />你今天不上班呀.<br />（ 您的好友正在使用手机QQ，详情请咨询您的好友或点击：http://mobile.qq.com/?c）<br />泡泡 14:06:45<br />who? <br />&nbsp; <br />1032647077 00:12:11<br />送你一个&nbsp; .&nbsp;&nbsp; 早点上走早,送你一只&nbsp; 别忘我送&nbsp; <br />（ 您的好友正在使用手机QQ，详情请咨询您的好友或点击：http://mobile.qq.com/?c）<br />泡泡 08:25:07<br />请问你是哪位啊？ <br />&nbsp;<br />1032647077 23:16:29<br />我是你来的朋友,怎么不见你来啊......<br />（ 您的好友正在使用手机QQ，详情请咨询您的好友或点击：http://mobile.qq.com/?c）<br />泡泡 23:19:33<br />什么意思？ <br />&nbsp;<br />泡泡 23:19:43<br />什么叫&ldquo;我是你来的朋友&rdquo; <br />&nbsp;<br />泡泡 23:19:46<br />？？ <br />&nbsp;<br />泡泡 23:20:24<br />ebay？ <br />&nbsp;<br />1032647077 23:22:48<br />好想认识你一个朋友呀<br />泡泡 23:23:52<br />从字面上理解，你要认识我的一个朋友？ <br />&nbsp;<br />泡泡 23:24:19<br />但是我现在还不知道你是谁？感觉莫名奇妙！ <br />&nbsp;<br />1032647077 23:27:25<br />是你以前的朋友,你猜猜我是谁<br />泡泡 23:27:41<br />...猜不出，你说呢？ <br />&nbsp;<br />泡泡 23:29:11<br />我觉得你是骗子。 <br />&nbsp;<br />泡泡 23:29:16<br />莫名其妙的、 <br />&nbsp;<br />泡泡 23:29:27<br />88,本人睡觉去了。 <br />&nbsp;<br />1032647077 23:37:00<br />奇时不是.想认识你一个朋友而以<br />泡泡 23:38:26<br />你想认识谁？ <br />&nbsp;<br />泡泡 23:38:31<br />说吧， <br />&nbsp;<br />泡泡 23:39:49<br />你总归也得自我介绍一番吧。 <br />&nbsp;<br />1032647077 23:40:06<br />就是你啊,做个朋友好吗<br />泡泡 23:40:22<br />...晕，你是谁啊？ <br />&nbsp;<br />1032647077 23:42:03<br />就是想和交个朋友的人<br />泡泡 23:42:36<br />... <br />&nbsp;<br />泡泡 23:42:44<br />...... <br />&nbsp;<br />泡泡 23:42:47<br />....... <br />&nbsp;<br />泡泡 23:42:58<br />你啊有名字啊？ <br />&nbsp;<br />1032647077 23:43:27<br />什么意思啊<br />泡泡 23:43:47<br />大哥、大叔、大伯、大姐、大嫂、大妈，您叫什么？是哪位啊？ <br />&nbsp;<br />泡泡 23:43:55<br />寻我开心是吧？ <br />&nbsp;<br />1032647077 23:45:11<br />叫我龙哥</p>]]></description>
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			<title>小惠姐送我的数码相机</title>
			<link>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/99949604.html</link>
			<comments>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/99949604.html#comment</comments>
			<dc:creator>遛狗狗</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 15:29:16 +0800</pubDate>
			<category>最近生活</category>
			<guid>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/99949604.html</guid>
			<description><![CDATA[<p><font face="Verdana" size="4">OLYMPUS：FE320</font></p>
<p><font face="Verdana" size="4">产地：日本</font></p>
<p><font face="Verdana" size="4">购买地：日本</font></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4">800万像素，算是目前中上等一点的吧，但是相机较小、较薄、外观靓丽是其亮点所在：</font></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4"></font><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1863.img.pp.sohu.com.cn/images/blog/2008/9/16/12/28/11d107557ebg213.jpg" border="0" /></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4"></font><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1853.img.pp.sohu.com.cn/images/blog/2008/9/16/12/27/11d1072659fg214.jpg" border="0" /></p>
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<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4">防抖动：运动中拍摄，夜间拍摄，咳咳。。。不防水的说。</font></p>
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<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4">操作界面：日文+英文混杂，不过好多中文、英文字在里面，操作起来基本没什么困难。</font></p>
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<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4">红外传输：可以和Sony Errection （spelling mistake？）互传相片。</font></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4"><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1853.img.pp.sohu.com.cn/images/blog/2008/9/16/12/28/11d1075004bg213.jpg" border="0" /></font></p>
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<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4">液晶屏:相对较大,看上去很清晰。咳咳。</font></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4"><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1803.img.pp.sohu.com.cn/images/blog/2008/9/16/12/28/11d107834fbg215.jpg" border="0" /></font></p>
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<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4">li电池：需充电5小时，两种充电方式：联机充（联机电源线）和取出电池充电（配有充电器），野外活动得再买一块电池的说。</font></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4"><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1863.img.pp.sohu.com.cn/images/blog/2008/9/16/12/27/11d1077659bg215.jpg" border="0" /></font></p>
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<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4">存储条：标配1GB，太少？o(&cap;_&cap;)o...</font></p>
<p><a href="http://1803.img.pp.sohu.com.cn/images/blog/2008/9/16/12/28/11d107834fbg215.jpg" target="_blank"></a><a href="http://1863.img.pp.sohu.com.cn/images/blog/2008/9/16/12/28/11d107557ebg213.jpg" target="_blank"></a><a href="http://1833.img.pp.sohu.com.cn/images/blog/2008/9/16/12/28/11d1072baa9g214.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1833.img.pp.sohu.com.cn/images/blog/2008/9/16/12/28/11d1072baa9g214.jpg" border="0" /></a><a href="http://1853.img.pp.sohu.com.cn/images/blog/2008/9/16/12/28/11d1075004bg213.jpg" target="_blank"></a><a href="http://1853.img.pp.sohu.com.cn/images/blog/2008/9/16/12/27/11d1072659fg214.jpg" target="_blank"></a><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4">价格：</font></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4">在大的商场买大概价格在1800-2000左右！本人建议在淘宝上买。FE320在淘宝上的价格是1500，其中包括，国电+1G卡+膜+小脚架+读卡器+包，行货。</font></p>
<p><font face="楷体_GB2312" size="4">目前易趣和淘宝上的标价是1000多点。</font></p>]]></description>
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			<title>Reciting the words during the dream</title>
			<link>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/98129594.html</link>
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			<dc:creator>遛狗狗</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 22:23:57 +0800</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>I have a dream due to the tireness this afternoon.During the dream I found I am reciting the words. Sounds unbelievable! But, it is true! What a pity that I have to review the English even in the dream. My God! Help me!</p>]]></description>
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			<title>收到论文集</title>
			<link>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/97252354.html</link>
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			<dc:creator>遛狗狗</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 19:46:57 +0800</pubDate>
			<category>学习</category>
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			<description><![CDATA[<p>今天收到厦门大学寄来的Iccse论文集，好家伙真是重啊，是我目前为止看到过的最大最重的书了。先不论这个会议的质量和影响如何，光这本书的价值就比较大了&mdash;&mdash;300￥（当然本人是仅仅从人名币价值看的啦）。</p>
<p>大伙来看看论文集的样子吧：</p>
<p><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1843.img.pp.sohu.com.cn/images/blog/2008/8/14/19/15/11c674c604dg214.jpg" border="0" /></p>
<p>再来个侧面写真吧：</p>
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			<title>如何练习英文写作</title>
			<link>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/93822622.html</link>
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			<dc:creator>遛狗狗</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Sun, 6 Jul 2008 16:04:16 +0800</pubDate>
			<category>English Writing</category>
			<guid>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/93822622.html</guid>
			<description><![CDATA[<p>转载</p>
<h1>Five Ways to Write Faster</h1>
<p>Whether you need to clear a backlog of emails, write an important document at work, finish a short story, or do your homework, spending hours staring at a blank screen and struggling to come up with words won&rsquo;t help.</p>
<p>If you know you could get twice as much done if only you could write faster, try some of the following methods.</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Don&rsquo;t worry about the quality of your first draft</strong> 
<p>Whether you&rsquo;re writing fiction or non-fiction, many experts recommend just getting the first draft done before starting to edit. That means keeping the momentum going as you write, rather than going back to change words or delete sentences. If you&rsquo;re a perfectionist and write slowly because you worry about getting every little detail right the first time round, giving yourself the freedom to produce a &ldquo;rubbish first draft&rdquo; can triple your writing speed.</p>
<p>Once you&rsquo;re done, go back and edit: often, you&rsquo;ll be surprised that your first draft really isn&rsquo;t too bad!</p>
<p>In his book <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Tomorrow-Other-Secrets-Time-Management/dp/0340909129/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1212006254&sr=8-1">Do It Tomorrow</a> (which I strongly recommend for anyone who struggles to manage their time and attention), <a href="http://www.markforster.net/">Mark Forster</a> recommends writing a series of quick drafts:</p>
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<p>When I first learnt the techniqute of writing in a series of rapid drafts, my first draft would usually consist of nothing more than a few words jotted down. My second draft would add a bit more and I would go on revising it until I had it in the form I wanted.</p>
<p>There are two great advantages to doing it this way. First of all it gets rid of the perfectionist feeling that it has to be got right first time. If I think a sentence is a bit clumsy, what does it matter? There&rsquo;ll be another draft along in a moment. The second advantage is that engaging with the material in this way allows new thoughts and insights to appear.</p></blockquote>
</li><li><strong>Outline the piece before starting</strong> 
<p>With bigger projects, it&rsquo;s easy to get stuck because you&rsquo;ve come to a standstill or gone off on a tangent. Jot down some notes before you begin: that might be subheadings for a blog post or article, paragraphs for an essay, or plot points for a short story. Type these onto your computer screen &ndash; you&rsquo;ll no longer be staring at a blank document, and seeing the next subheading or paragraph point ahead will help keep you on track. </p>
</li><li><strong>Set a timer for ten minutes and write non-stop until it goes off</strong> 
<p>Have you noticed how much faster you write when you need to finish something before a set time (perhaps lunch, or an essay deadline)? It&rsquo;s amazing how much your brain can focus when you&rsquo;ve only got a few minutes. Mark Forster calls this the &ldquo;end effect&rdquo; &ndash; speeding up at the end of a piece of work &ndash; and recommends using a timer to produce it consistently. Challenge yourself to see how much you can produce in ten minutes. </p>
</li><li><strong>Do your research and preparation separately from the writing</strong> 
<p>Something that can really slow things down is stopping to look up a fact, find a quote, or check a figure. When you write the outline for your piece (see #2), you should have a good idea of what references you&rsquo;ll need to make. Look these up before you start writing, and have them all to hand.</p>
<p>Alternatively, if the process of writing sparks off ideas of websites, books or people you want to refer to, don&rsquo;t stop to find them part-way through writing the piece. Leave a note in the text to remind yourself of what you want to include; you might want to highlight this in some way so you don&rsquo;t forget to go back and put it in! For example, in the first draft of this article, I wrote &ndash;</p>
<p><em><strong>[Quote from Mark Forster on drafting process]</strong></em></p>
<p>&ndash; and looked it up when I revised the first draft.</p>
<p>The same applies if you&rsquo;re unsure of how to spell a word, or if you can&rsquo;t quite think of the right phrase: highlight it in some way, and come back to it once the first draft is complete. </p>
</li><li><strong>Turn off distractions (instant messenger, Twitter, email.)</strong> 
<p>If you&rsquo;re constantly interrupted by friends wanting to chat on instant messenger, by incoming emails, by new posts coming through to your RSS reader &ndash; turn everything off. I can write at least twice as fast &ndash; and often even faster &ndash; without any distractions. You might think it only takes a few seconds to read each message, but every time you turn your attention away from what you&rsquo;re writing, you lose momentum.</p>
<p>I&rsquo;m great at procrastinating when I should be writing and so I write most of my blog posts first thing in the morning, before I even connect my computer to the internet. This also helps with #4 &ndash; I&rsquo;m not tempted to stop and search for some missing piece of information on Google every few minutes. </p></li></ol>
<p>Have you got any great tips on speeding up your writing? Can you dash off an essay in an hour, or race through your inbox with ease? Let us know what tips and tricks you&rsquo;ve discovered &ndash; or, alternatively, if you&rsquo;re a slow writer, tell us where you think you&rsquo;re going wrong!</p>]]></description>
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			<title>南通游-20080608上午喝早茶</title>
			<link>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/89556427.html</link>
			<comments>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/89556427.html#comment</comments>
			<dc:creator>遛狗狗</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Sun, 8 Jun 2008 09:46:22 +0800</pubDate>
			<category>最近生活</category>
			<guid>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/89556427.html</guid>
			<description><![CDATA[<p>上午6：30我们大伙就起来了，7：20赶到茶庄喝早茶，吃早点。于是乎，我们发现某个mm很能吃，桌前六个馒头都是她&ldquo;钦点&rdquo;的，在杨勇gg鄙视的目光下，她仍不顾形象的大吃大嚼(我们后面一桌的老爷爷早已呆若木鸡)：</p>
<p><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1832.img.pp.sohu.com.cn/images/blog/2008/6/8/9/11/11b0aa30b0c.jpg" border="0" /></p>
<p>连红军也看呆了：</p>
<p><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1802.img.pp.sohu.com.cn/images/blog/2008/6/8/9/14/11b0ab2ce3f.jpg" border="0" /></p>
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			<title>答辩结束-总结一把</title>
			<link>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/88524661.html</link>
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			<dc:creator>遛狗狗</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 09:01:59 +0800</pubDate>
			<category>学习</category>
			<guid>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/88524661.html</guid>
			<description><![CDATA[<p>26号，我们第一组16个人参加了答辩，一晚奋战，等着今天出结果了。总结该组老师的提问方式如下：<br />&nbsp; 首先，就昨晚提问来说，徐老师的提问特色是穷追猛打，但是他的问题普遍比较好回答。对于他的问题只要跟他&ldquo;问答式&rdquo;耗着就行了，时间到了就轮到下一个了，其他老师就没办法多问了，^_^。当然了，不能让他找到你的致命缺陷，咱需要扬长避短是不？<br />&nbsp; 第二，朱巧明教授的问题很有深度，比较独到，比较难回答,需要谨慎思考。他如果连续提问你几个问题，一定要想好前几个问题如何回答，说不定回答不好就会被他的思路套着走了。厉害啊！小菜我，昨晚就被套着走了一下下^_^<br />&nbsp; 第三，李培峰副教授的提问也很有针对性，个人感觉他研究的领域比较多，对诸如数据库、网格、工作流、NLP等都很在行，因此对这方面的论文进行答辩需要格外小心了。但是，李老师为人较好，一般不会故意叼难学生。<br />&nbsp; 第四，周国栋教授（答辩组长）是NLP方面的大家，回答NLP方面的问题千万不要搬门弄斧，讲清楚自己的工作、创新点就行。<br />&nbsp; 第五，姚建民老师查阅论文非常仔细,对论文格式、参考文献非常重视，他对NLP也很有研究。<br />&nbsp; 总之，对于第一组老师来说，答辩的自述时间不喜欢太长，一般限定在10-15分钟，15分钟千万不要超过。自述时一定要突出自己毕业设计研究工作的重点，要有明确的主线，让人一看就明白做了哪些工作，研究方法是什么；不宜讲太多的基础知识。和前人的结果进行比较一定要在同一条件下，如果不可比千万不要把比较列在ppt上，答辩的老师可不是傻子，一看就明白的。<br />&nbsp; 至于其他老师，如杨季文老师，作风比较严谨，一般是该组的答辩组长。老杨的时间要求是15-20分钟，不得少于15分钟，严禁超过20分钟！跟老杨一组答辩不会快。今年老杨问问题比较多，基本上每个人都问几个问题。回答问题时一定要态度严肃、认真，昨晚老杨就为此发过火！老杨的问题也是比较要命的，很注重问题是否能够解决实际问题，因此论文千万不要造假、玩虚的，这样很容易被老杨看穿，然后就盯着你问了，那时你是死了的心都会有的！o(&cap;_&cap;)o...哈哈.<br /></p>]]></description>
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			<title>苏州奥运火炬传递现场手机摄像</title>
			<link>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/88377416.html</link>
			<comments>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/88377416.html#comment</comments>
			<dc:creator>遛狗狗</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Sun, 25 May 2008 12:11:04 +0800</pubDate>
			<category>2008奥运专题</category>
			<guid>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/88377416.html</guid>
			<description><![CDATA[<p>以下是奥运火炬传递&mdash;&mdash;苏州站，海关大楼附近火炬传递，视频末尾有两个火炬手互传火炬起跑得得过程。</p>
<p>由于人多拥挤，手机拍摄有点晃动：</p>
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			<title>发现一段不错的文字</title>
			<link>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/78821663.html</link>
			<comments>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/78821663.html#comment</comments>
			<dc:creator>遛狗狗</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2008 21:07:42 +0800</pubDate>
			<guid>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/78821663.html</guid>
			<description><![CDATA[<p>发现一段不错的文字：（转载自：<a href="http://ld05.blog.sohu.com/">http://ld05.blog.sohu.com/</a>）</p>
<p>阿梦是我：）<br /><br />你是纵的，我是横的<br />你我平分了天体的四个方位<br />我们从来的地方来，打这儿经过<br />相遇。我们毕竟相遇<br />在这儿，四周是注满了水的田垄<br />有一只鹭鸶停落，悄悄小立<br />而我们宁静地寒暄，道着再见<br />以沉默相约，攀过那远远的两个山头遥望<br />当一片羽毛落下，啊，那时<br />我们都希望－－－假如幸福也像一只白鸟<br />它曾悄悄下落。是的，我们希望<br />纵然它是长着翅膀&hellip;&hellip; </p>]]></description>
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			<title>当幸福来敲门</title>
			<link>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/78730736.html</link>
			<comments>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/78730736.html#comment</comments>
			<dc:creator>遛狗狗</dc:creator>
			<pubDate>Sat, 9 Feb 2008 11:33:50 +0800</pubDate>
			<category>转载</category>
			<guid>http://xfdeng.blog.sohu.com/78730736.html</guid>
			<description><![CDATA[<h2>《当幸福来敲门》-转载</h2>
<p>幸福，我们是如此想享受它带来的那片刻温柔。当我们苦苦寻找幸福的时候，或许我们已经错过了许多原本幸福的时刻。当我们费尽千辛万苦获得所谓的幸福时，你才发现幸福原来很简单，简单的让你感受不到它的存在。</p>
<p>什么是幸福？这个问题就如你问什么是宇宙一样。每个人在心中都有自己的幸福标准，只要达到了这个标准，你就是幸福的。别人的幸福不一定是你所想要的，而你自己的幸福未必对别人有用。幸福是自私的，只有自己才能体会那片刻的快感。如果非要给幸福下个定论。我觉得无非有两点：一是和你相爱的人在一起；一是做你最喜欢的事情。<a></a> </p>
<p>克里斯&middot;加德纳则拥有后一种幸福。作为一个单亲长大的他，在28岁的时候才见到自己的亲生父亲，于是他想让自己的儿子一直都活在自己的保护下。他的梦想是成为一名投资专家。可是，面对生活的困苦，妻子还是离开了他。接着，没有房租的他开始带着儿子过着流浪的生活。一方面他要努力通过没有薪水的6个月实习期；一方面他要卖医疗仪器借此糊口；一方面他要保护好儿子的幼小心灵。当他咬牙坚持住后，他终于成为了一名正式的经济师，这离他的梦想更近了。在那一刻，站在人群中的他激动的不知道如何来表达内心的感受，他飞速的跑到儿子面前和他相拥，眼中的泪花在这一刻则是幸福的泪水。虽然，这对他来说只是一个起步，不过，这确是他的人生转折。</p>
<p>得到幸福的过程是如此的艰难，也正因为艰难，我们才会珍惜。当圣诞节的那天，他和儿子无家可归的流落在车站，他用自己的幽默让儿子得以度过一年中最美好的一天，然后在厕所里相拥着度过他们最漫长的一夜。当他在球场上对儿子说：&ldquo;如果你有梦想，那么请保护好它。&rdquo;在那一刻，他都未必能坚持住自己的梦想，但是他却鼓励儿子能够坚信梦想。 </p>
<p>儿子是他的最大动力，而梦想让他不至于崩溃。其实，幸福是什么？幸福只是你在实现自己目标后的一种心理反应。这种心理反应带来整个人精神上的振奋，让你又有更强大的精神动力。看着克里斯&middot;加德纳的眼神，我所体会的不是幸福的来源，而是梦想的伟大。我们都有自己的梦想，而有能力的人则把梦想变成现实。这个过程中，虽然会有很多的阻力，但是，我是否应该坚信自己的能力，我是否应该相信自己的目标。社会虽然有很多的不公平，但是既然很多人都能在这个规则下找到自己的人生坐标，那我为什么不能找到自己的幸福。当幸福来敲门的时候，我应该用满怀感激的心来享受我所付出的一切。其实，幸福或许就在身边，而我只是没有发现而已。</p>
<p>找一个爱的人或做喜欢做的事情，好简单的幸福。就是这么简单的幸福却未必都能实现。但是，很容易实现的东西还有价值吗？</p>
<p>后记：</p>
<p>根据克里斯&middot;加德纳的经历改编的片子，在午夜给了我强大的心灵冲击。我虽然没有他那样的遭遇，但是我能感受出内心那种无助。在那一刻，我的泪水多次滑落了脸庞。</p>
<p>当一个人窝在被子里看电影的时候，是没有人能干涉自己的情感。这或许是我不想去电影院的原因之一吧！</p>
<p>本片最大的看点或许应该是史密斯和自己亲身儿子一起演戏。</p>]]></description>
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